My Opinion of Airports

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best and worst airport you’ve been to?

I am not a well-traveled person, but I have been through a few airports. Obviously, the one I have been through the most is Memphis, now Fredrick W. Smith. The first time I saw that airport was as a Marine private flying in from LAX. I must admit, considering the size of the city, I was surprised at the size and the cleanliness of it, back in 1967. I found out later that it was relatively new and the one it replaced is now for general aviation. Since that day, I have gone through the airport more times than I can count. Unfortunately, I don’t think the airport has truly kept up. I wouldn’t count it as the best or worst. It might be better than average.

It’s been over a decade since I last traveled through LAX, yet it remains my gold standard for operational excellence and strategic planning. The airport processes an impressive volume of passengers and aircraft while maintaining a remarkable track record of avoiding negative publicity. What’s particularly impressive is their commitment to continuous upgrades that keep operations flowing seamlessly. That said, my experience is somewhat dated, so current conditions may well have evolved.

I’ve been through there about ten times without any issues or unexpected delays. They have a nice restaurant right in the center with a great view. The area has developed quite a bit, so the view has diminished somewhat over the years. But when I ate there, I enjoyed excellent food at a surprisingly reasonable price.

Chicago O’Hare is a hectic hub, as you might expect. One particular visit stood out as especially chaotic. I was scheduled to arrive from Memphis at 7 p.m., but severe weather caused significant delays. We circled overhead, waiting for clearance to land. Upon leaving the baggage claim 12:30 am, I found vehicles—primarily taxis and limousines—queued two-deep along the curb.

Still, I won’t call it the worst airport. It was the exception, not the rule. Besides, it features a smart design: you step virtually from the plane onto a train. (Or visa versa). If you know the city, that’s a major advantage. I haven’t seen that anywhere else. New York might offer it, but I only passed through New York on a connection. I’ll reserve judgment on that one. Besides, I don’t know which airport it was.

When connecting through DFW Airport, brace yourself for a challenging experience. On three separate occasions, I barely made my connections, coming dangerously close to missing my flights each time. The gates consistently closed just as I was boarding. This proves particularly problematic when transferring between domestic and international terminals.

Atlanta receives my lowest rating, primarily due to my personal experiences there. While I acknowledge that worse airports likely exist, I haven’t visited them to compare. Every time I’ve traveled through Atlanta, my plane has been positioned at one of the terminal’s furthest gates. Adding to the frustration, my luggage consistently arrived even later than I did. Thankfully, I no longer have occasion to fly into Atlanta.

Kennedy Assassination

Daily writing prompt
If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?

I’d like to know know what really happened. Then again, that would likely put a bull’s eye on my back wouldn’t it. But then who would be those wanting to silence me? I’d really like to know.

Note: auto spell correction sometimes gets it wrong. Originally it changed my spelling of assassination because I dropped an s. Sorry, I did not notice it right away.

Define Coincidence

I saw a sign that defined a coincidence as God working undercover. It is a thought. Many times we mark things up as coincidence that might be miracles. On the other hand, I suspect there are things we claim God did that were really simple coincidence. Just because God foreknows a thing does not mean he caused it. To be sure, sometimes when things happen, I become convinced that it is because God is punishing me. The truth is, mostly I don’t know.

I am very fascinated by the concept of coincidence, both in my personal life and in history. The D-Day invasion, if you closely study it, is a long list of coincidences. Or, perhaps they are caused by the hand of God, beginning with the weather. Had it not cleared on 6 June, the whole thing might have been a total disaster. I suspect Gen Ike would be one of the first to call it an act of God. On the other hand, most of the German leaders would fuss it was a horrible coincidence.

Certainly, I have had my experience with coincidence. I guess, for the most part, they were to my benefit. Some were perhaps to my benefit though I thought not at the time. must admit that God has been very good to me.

I guess there was one weird time that made me seem like the smartest computer field engineer on earth. They had been working on the thing 4 days and the customer was threatening to tell our company to just take it out.

As I was in route on the plane, there all sorts of things going through my mind, wondering what the problem might be. I was not told in advance of the symptoms so I suspected I would not do any better than the 4 previous engineers.

It is a long technical story, however, the sort story is, I told the engineers on sight to use a screwdriver to tighten some screws instead of hand tight. They objected. They logical, I had to admit, to this day.

They tightened the screws snug and 3 minutes later the computer came to life. The truth is, I’m not a genius, though I certainly appeared to be. The truth was, coincidentally, I saw the same problem a couple of weeks earlier. I knew how to fix the problem because I had fought for hours with the same problem for many frustrating .

The hitch, as I think back over the situation, I should have faked having a bunch of trouble fixing it. A. It would have made me look smarter, because I made the problem look too simple. I never even picked up a tool or a piece of test equipment. I mean, if it was that easy to fix. I didn’t need to be so smart. B. It made my predecessors look bad. I fixed the problem in three minutes. Why were they unable in four days. Actually, the bunch of them were likely better engineers than me and quickly they had egg on their faces, which, in a way, made my company look bad. C. I really wish they would have described the problem to me on the phone. I could have given them the solution more quickly and they would have been the heroes.

As mentioned before, I do have a curiosity about coincidences. The Bible speaks of many that I will like to discuss firsthand when I get the opportunity. And also there are the ones that occurred during the Revolutionary War, and WWII. It has increased my curiosity over the years.

Because of this curiosity, I have written a book that explores the idea of coincidence. It is called, “The Coincidence Theory,” in which a pair of Los Angeles detectives try to solve crimes while dealing with seemingly impossible coincidences.

If you would like, you can order the book from Amazon.com. Just look up Ben Rhodes and The Coincidence Theory. I won’t mind if you look at a few more of my books too, more than 35.

Daily writing prompt
What’s the weirdest coincidence you’ve ever experienced?

Reading

I have written on this many times before, without the prompt. I will likely write on it many more times. It’s one thing that cannot be overly stressed. Reason being, most of what most people learn will be from reading. When a person can’t read, or reads poorly, it will become a serious learning disability. Those that read well, read rapidly, and read with comprehension will always have the advantage over all of his peers.

Writing, speaking, math and science are all foundation subjects. However, it all starts with reading. Don’t get me wrong. History is very important but history is learned primarily through reading. That makes reading more important than history.

More importantly, it permits the truth to be easily hidden from those who can’t or won’t read.

As my aside, bear in mind, the importance of selecting the school for your children one of the most important decisions you will make for him. It makes your ability to make that choice very critical.

Even more so, anyone given the task of teaching reading should be immediately replaced if he doesn’t do it, regardless of why.

Daily writing prompt
What’s a thing you wish schools actually taught?

Certainly Worth Your Attention, If Not The Best

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

It was the first week of boot camp by one of my drill instructors. “Never own more than you can carry on your back.”

At the time, it seemed so, so foolish. Over time, I realize it was me who was foolish. You see, if you own too much stuff you will realize that it will be your stuff that will own you.

Indeed, They Do

Daily writing prompt
Do you think everything happens for a reason?

When a city is run properly, people go there. When run improperly they leave.

Ever since Memphis has been run by Democrats, crime has increased, school quality has decreased and people have been leaving.

I realize that this prompt was not intended to aimed at this subject, but after considering, I realize it is totally appropriate. Yes, things did happen and yes it was for a reason and likely to continue. Currently, people do continue moving north, south, east and west of Memphis, as do businesses. The businesses go where the people go. It’s just the old cause and affect.

Actually, I have Two

Maybe it’s not right to provide two, but they fit two purposes.

“The most important thing, is to keep the the most important thing, the most important thing. “

It is so easy to get side tracked so as to forget the most important thing. I don’t want to admit it, but I certainly did, and more than once.

“That that is so, is so. That that is not, is not. Is not that so?”

You have to admit that is hard to argue with, though there are those that try. I am sure you can think of a few with little effort.

Just for fun, let me include this old one that was a favorite of my brother. He was all the time slightly misquoting it.

“Ladies and gentlemen, I stand before you, to stand behind you, to speak to you about that which I know nothing about.”

Sort of sounds like a few Democrats as they speak on their great knowledge about genders. Maybe someone needs to call the first two quotes to their attention. I mean those that are men are men. Those that are women, are women. Is not that so?

Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite quote?

Public Speaking

Many people underestimate the genuine value of speaking confidently before a group. While some naturally excel at public speaking, most overlook its importance altogether.

However, the reality is that someone who speaks persuasively commands considerable power. Conversely, a lawyer who doesn’t sound knowledgeable cannot effectively advocate for their client.

It’s remarkable how many college graduates lack strong communication skills, particularly in speaking. One significant challenge in public speaking is their inability to project their voice effectively. They might deliver insightful remarks to an audience, yet fail to connect because no one can hear their mumbled words.

I have consistently emphasized that when selecting a litigation lawyer, ensure he commands attention in the courtroom. Often, success hinges less on what is said than on how it is delivered. Some people become more persuasive simply because of their delivery style.

Daily writing prompt
What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do?

Dreams & Reality

The neighbors have taken several cruises and thoroughly enjoyed them. I imagine I would too, though perhaps not to the same degree. I’m uncomfortable with the idea of being surrounded by thousands of miles of open ocean. I’ve experienced that before, just not on a large cruise ship. It’s certainly not something I aspire to do.

Some people dream of visiting Paris or Rome, and I have to admit, I might actually enjoy that. It would be wonderful to see the Eiffel Tower, the Colosseum, or even the ancient ruins of Greece. I’m genuinely drawn to visiting Israel—I could easily spend weeks there. Beyond these destinations, I can’t imagine wanting to explore anywhere else.

However, my greatest dream is to visit nearly every state across the United States. I don’t think that will happen—not unless I find a million-dollar check in my mailbox very soon.

Daily writing prompt
What’s your biggest dream?